So, a couple of weeks ago we went shopping for all of her dance essentials: black leotard, pink tights, and pink ballet shoes. Paige had so much fun picking them out and trying them on. She literally danced around the dressing room in front of each mirror when she tried on the leotard with the skirt. I had to laugh out loud because it was so funny and cute. (The plain leotard did not have the same 'wow factor' for her, so of course, we got the one with the skirt!)
So, on the way to dance class Paige was super excited about what she was going to learn and then asked me about being by herself. (She totally loved being in swim class by herself, so I hadn't really worried about her being sad about this. However, she was!) She asked me if it was okay that she was a little scared to be by herself. I told her it was okay but that I would be right outside watching through the one-way mirror, so she could be brave! I then reminded her how fun it would be.
When we got to dance class she was super excited to be there and see her good friend Kacey. She put on her pretend crown and pink high-heel shoes and followed the teacher into the dance studio. Everything was going well for about the first 10 minutes and then Paige just burst into tears and said she missed her mommy.
Oh no! I didn't know what to do...they really don't want you to go into the studio because they want the kiddos to focus on the teacher at all times. So, I waited to see how the teacher would handle this. Miss Clara had Paige sit by her and she kind of calmed down. Then, (this was the sweetest thing) Paige leaned over to her good friend Kacey and asked her to give her a hug! (Whenever Paige is sad, she always wants me to give her a hug.)
This worked for a few minutes until she started to cry again. The teacher asked her if she'd like to go give her mommy a big hug and she said yes. I went to the door and hugged her for a couple minutes and tried to convince her to return to class. She did go back, but I stayed at the door for most of the class. Paige cried about 3-4 more times and came back to give me a hug each time. About the last 10 minutes of class, she was able to make it without coming over and I returned to the one-way mirror to observe.
Afterwards, Paige said she had a lot of fun and wanted to do dance class again. She even went back to tell Miss Clara thank-you! We'll see how it goes next week...crossing my fingers for progress! :)